RESOLUTION SOLUTION

HEALTH | FITNESS
2018
JAN/FEB

“Year's end is neither an end nor a beginning but a going on, with all the wisdom that experience can instill in us.” --Hal Borland

The New Year is a great time to take inventory, set goals, and take charge of your life. But if you’re like most, making resolutions is much easier than keeping them. Rather than focus on the idea of a new beginning, which can lead to disappointment at the first slip, keep in mind that self-improvement is an ongoing endeavor. Setbacks are not failure; they bring wisdom and insight for future success.

Before making a split decision as to this year’s resolutions, make a list of goals and changes you’d like to make. Then review your list, and cross off any you do not feel truly devoted to.

Whether you resolve to spend more time with your family, quit smoking, or lose weight, you’re more likely to succeed if you feel a strong personal commitment rather than 'I should.'

One reason people don't keep resolutions they make is the resolutions are often made to silence the pestering of a loved one. If you decide to quit smoking to get your husband off your back, you’re less likely to succeed. If you decide to quit smoking to feel healthier and be able to enjoy physical activity without being winded, you're more likely to experience success.

Choose one or perhaps two of the resolutions on your list to which you feel most committed. Then choose one or two you feel confident you can do with ease. These last couple can be used as positive reinforcement for the more challenging first choices.

The next step is to make a clear plan for adhering to your resolutions. Put each resolution in writing, and detail the steps to achieve them. If your resolution requires a routine or schedule such as an exercise routine, a new diet, or steps toward completing your education, then create a goal chart, a detailed plan, and a checklist to track your progress.

Also, post notes in strategic places such as the refrigerator, bathroom mirror, or steering wheel as reminders of your resolutions with tips on how to overcome temptation.

Make certain your family understands the importance of your resolutions. Family support and their positive reinforcement can be most helpful. If your resolution is something your family has been nagging you about, ask for their encouragement but explain that pressure and pestering, particularly during setbacks, could undermine your resolve. Determine how each family member can help you to achieve your goal perhaps by taking on additional household chores or through affirmations of your
continued success.

Adjust your environment to enable success. If eating healthier is your goal, don’t fill the cupboards with junk food for other family members. Find healthy snacks they’re willing to substitute. If you’re trying to quit smoking, avoid people, places, and things that remind or tempt you, at least until you have it well under control.

Don’t go it alone. If you have a friend with a similar resolution, make a pact. Work together to create a plan, and then make a point to check in with each other regularly for encouragement, praise, and support. If you resolve to get more exercise, do it together. Having a commitment and someone to accompany you will go a long way in helping you to succeed.

Finally, reward yourself, not just once you’ve achieved your goal, but periodically for your success so far. Small, periodic rewards can be motivation enough to keep you strong when you’re ready to throw in the towel.

Remember, whatever New Year resolutions you choose, success awaits you if you resolve to never give up trying.

BSCENE READERS' RESOLUTIONS

My New Year Resolution is to live more mindfully and peacefully. I want to eat cleaner, volunteer more, and help those who are struggling emotionally and physically. I also want to elevate my overall health and wellness. - Stacy Mitchell, of Tyler, Owner of The Zen Den

As far as a resolution: To continue to develop my skills as a physician and a photographer. - Dr. Scott Lieberman,  of Tyler, cardiologist at The Cardiovascular Associates of East Texas

I'm going to be more creative.  Develop more fresh ideas; outside the box thinking in relation to work.  In my personal life, the same, by reading something I wouldn't normally read, listening to music I wouldn't normally listen to.  Free my mind of everyday hassles so I can create.  - Eric Eitel, General Manager of Pinecrest Country Club in Longview

My resolution is to be more intentional at being my "Best Me" ... spiritually, emotionally, physically. When I'm whole, all my relationships are whole.  - Suzette Farr, of Tyler, Corporate Market Director for the American Heart Assocication

After all the holiday treats, my New Year’s Resolution is to jump back on the Paleo Diet bandwagon. I look forward to getting back to real foods like meat and vegetables.  - Ethan McMillan, Attorney-at-Law, formerly of Kilgore

For my New Year Resolution, I want to learn to enjoy my retirement and to be more giving and active in my community. - Lisa Sadler, of Troup, retired elementary teacher of over 30 years at Arp ISD.

 

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